Hello

This work holds a very special place in my heart. It is the result of over a decade of training, learning and experimenting in the field of somatic sexology, consent communication, interpersonal neurobiology, trauma informed practice and so much more.

Crucially, my sessions are centered around you; your learning, your pleasure, your edges, your healing, your curiosity. They are slow paced, we make time to notice your experience (thoughts, feelings, emotions, sensations) and let them guide the play practice we decide to place our focus on today.

In my experience, transformation is a slow process. It wasn’t always easy for me. It took a huge amount of courage and determination for me to keep returning to illuminate my desire, re-examine interests and ‘shameful’ secrets. And I’m still learning.

I welcome people in all bodies, of all genders, all sexual orientations, adopting all relationship styles. I don’t say this to be inclusive. It might seems obvious why a trans person would want to engage my services, but what about a cis person? Trans people are experts in living in the grey areas of life; in the in between and the unknown. If you are looking for change, or already experiencing it, then you are also in the 'in between', and this can be a scary place. It can also be an exciting place!

You might have a particular concern or curiosity, or you might have a sense that there is more available in your eroticism, and recognise the need for some support to find it. It would be an honour and a pleasure to learn with you.